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Insecurity and My Marriage

Originally posted April 2009

So ladies, who fills your cup?
Who or what dictates what kind of day you are going to have?

I spent a few years allowing the emotions of my day to be hinged on how my husband talked to me and treated me.
If I felt loved and accepted by him, it was a good day.
But if I felt I had let him down or he was angry or disappointed with me about something, it was a bad day.

I lived my life through his eyes. My security came from him alone.

I struggled with this until I learned that my esteem and security were supposed to come from my God. In fact, the way that I was living was putting a huge strain on my husband and our relationship.

I put him in a position that God never intended him to be...my all in all, my everything.

I found out that God wanted to be My Everything, and in fact it was wrong to put any person in that position in my life.

I let him and others dictate the mood and atmosphere of my life and home.
One negative look or comment could send my emotions spiraling down.

Thankfully, I was in a Bible study that set me on the right track. God's Word taught me that my joy needed to come from my relationship with Him and that nothing and no one could take THAT joy away.

I learned to walk close to God and let His Word be my barometer.

1 John 3:1
How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!
NIV

I was God's child, His precious daughter. He loved me enough to send His Son to die for me. The more I learned about the Lord, the more I loved Him and understood His love for me.

This very insecure woman found security in God her Father. He became my All in All...and continues to make that so real to me everyday.

However, I still have days when I need to remind myself that my joy comes from the Lord and nothing or no one can take that away. I choose to walk this life...it won't happen by accident.

I need to fill my cup with the Lord and His goodness so that I am not draining my husband and friends...wanting them to fill me. Blaming them for my bad days.

Lord, help us to find our joy and security in You and You alone. The other relationships in our life are so meaningful and rewarding, but they are not what sustains us, that is reserved for You.
Help us to run to you first Lord, fill us, and let us pour Your love into our families as it overflows from out hearts.

I'm praying for our marriages,

The Latest Praise and Coffee Newsletter is Here!

I'm so excited to share our latest Praise and Coffee Newsletter "Connections" with you!

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This is only the beginning girls, I want this to grow into a newsletter that's filled with the cool and wonderful things that God is doing at Praise and Coffee Nights across the nation!

If you host one or have attended and have a story to share, please email it to me...I'd love to read it and include it in the next newsletter this summer.

You can always read the newsletter on our main website Praise and Coffee.

AND...for those of you near Plainwell, MI...tonight is our Praise and Coffee Night, hope to see you there!

Hope for Women in the Shadow of Pornography

I had such a huge response last week on the subject of pornography I wanted to give you another site that is very helpful...

More than Desire ~ hope for women in the shadow of pornography

It has tons of information about the struggle of pornography from the view of women and men.

I'm praying for our marriages,
Sue

*Video* Lauren's First Motorcycle

We have some awesome friends in motocross and a bunch of them pooled together to get Lauren her first motorcycle. We are so thankful, and clearly see their plan to get us back to the racetrack! :)

I have a feeling we'll be there soon, I can't wait!

Yes, it is me taking the video and doing all the screaming...



Thank you all so much!

I'm So Blond!

I'm posting at the Internet cafe today, stop over and enjoy a cuppa with me!

I pretty much embarrass myself once again...







Direct link to article: "God, I Want to do BIG Things!"

Husbands and Porn

The subject of pornography comes up in emails quite often so I want to send you today to a site that has some good information. There are even more links in their comments.

I receive emails from the Generous Wife everyday and this one came yesterday.

The Generous Wife ~ Husbands and Porn

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I'm praying for our marriages,
Sue