tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post2001215403066524456..comments2023-05-17T11:12:09.399-04:00Comments on Praise and Coffee: Two shall become One ~ Is it really beneficial to stay married?Praise and Coffeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18273673325959351521noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-29619724688877851272008-10-20T15:55:00.000-04:002008-10-20T15:55:00.000-04:00Thanks for the link to the love and respect site. ...Thanks for the link to the love and respect site. It is all stuff I have heard already but have a hard time putting into practise. I am hoping that I will be able to go to one of the upcoming conferences with my husband.Tamathahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06161946723918013409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-92013184584357716292008-10-17T08:52:00.000-04:002008-10-17T08:52:00.000-04:00Marriage is hard, but awesome! I so wish that peo...Marriage is hard, but awesome! I so wish that people could trust God more with their marriage! God knew what he was doing when he created being joined together!A Stone Gathererhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763530057889661436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-9224540857312981912008-10-16T22:13:00.000-04:002008-10-16T22:13:00.000-04:00YES! What an awesome blog you have. I couldn't r...YES! What an awesome blog you have. I couldn't resist the title when I saw it on TopBlogArea, and when I got to your site, I couldn't resist your blog! Great work for the family.<BR/><BR/>Partner in Christ,<BR/>Cyndi Warren<BR/>www.warrenfamilylife.com<BR/>http://warrenfamilylife.blogspot.com/Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05440082272111233082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-59853148107029600402008-10-15T13:48:00.000-04:002008-10-15T13:48:00.000-04:00Yet another great and oh-so relevant post in our d...Yet another great and oh-so relevant post in our disposable society...throw away everything...including marriages.<BR/>And such emotional upheaval and scarring for everyone involved when this happens...<BR/>Thanks Sue!<BR/><BR/>PS I have "tagged" you...not sure if you want to play along...but stop by my blog if you do...Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02045194578759966303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-21004065482154802392008-10-15T13:22:00.000-04:002008-10-15T13:22:00.000-04:00Sue, I saw your update on facebook and ran to rehe...Sue, I saw your update on facebook and ran to reheat a cup of coffee (my second cup today, btw) so I was ready to read your blog.<BR/><BR/>Several years ago I heard a Christian speaker on the radio (maybe Dr. James Dobson) discussing the effects of divorce on children. The speaker said that there are very few true cases of clinical Attention Deficit Disorder and that those are linked to Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. He said the real definition of ADD in most cases is "Adults Doing Divorce."<BR/><BR/>He said the emotional upheaval it causes in children is devastating. <BR/><BR/>My dear one came from a broken home and let me know that if I accepted his proposal, it was a lifetime commitment. He would never agree to a divorce... He was in 2nd grade when his parents split and in 4th when the divorce was final. He endured much emotional pain and those torments resulted in physical pain as he had stomach trouble fairly regularly until we married (almost 27 years ago!!).<BR/><BR/>I never wanted to subject my children to such pain...even when I was selfish and rebellious (married at 18, I had a lot of growing up to do). His experience was enough to convince me to put the kids first. I'm so glad I did.Patriciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05811756366902296711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-66535984899040856022008-10-15T07:05:00.000-04:002008-10-15T07:05:00.000-04:00Of course not, I love it when you all add somethin...Of course not, I love it when you all add something!Praise and Coffeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18273673325959351521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-7016694851474070392008-10-15T05:31:00.000-04:002008-10-15T05:31:00.000-04:00Mind if I add something? I heard it once and I don...Mind if I add something? I heard it once and I don't remember where. If one has that much animosity against their spouse, they ought to find one thing, positive about their spouse and begin to thank God for that one thing. Keep thanking God for that one thing and watch how it will grow from there. Thankfully, I haven't gotten to that point where I've ever had to do that but it sure is helpful advice if you meet up with someone that has it. At least that's what one person who did it said. They are head over heals in love with each other again. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-12969952620887911302008-10-14T20:50:00.000-04:002008-10-14T20:50:00.000-04:00Excellent post! I really appreciate you sharing th...Excellent post! I really appreciate you sharing this. Now that I'm married I have grown to realize how it truly does take selfless efforts to make a marriage beautiful and strong. I love being married and pray to God that the love I have for my husband only continues to grow in the years ahead. We face many challenges as a military couple, but God has given us such a deep, burning love that I know by His grace and our determination our marriage can remain strong. Thanks for sharing this encouragement.Brittneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01833830414195768294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-78466587768496794752008-10-14T18:13:00.000-04:002008-10-14T18:13:00.000-04:00Great post! My parents separted when I was 40 and ...Great post! My parents separted when I was 40 and it turned our family upside down. Thankfully they were able to work it out but it was a really difficult time for all of us. Thanks for these Tuesday posts they really are great.<BR/>Blessings,<BR/>LindaLindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13083269902415533758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-72945162793803013642008-10-14T17:34:00.000-04:002008-10-14T17:34:00.000-04:00Our community group did this study a few months ag...Our community group did this study a few months ago. I HIGHlY recommend it whether your marriage is struggling or not. It is a book that will change you and your marriage if you are willing to do the work.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your words of wisdom and encouragement!Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03419455608896457072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-7331796795998197422008-10-14T12:45:00.000-04:002008-10-14T12:45:00.000-04:00It's funny that you post this today (ok, not reall...It's funny that you post this today (ok, not really...I am sure it was a total "God thing") - but, I am working on a post that fits perfectly with yours....<BR/><BR/>The post is about how often times God gives us a quick word of encouragement - kind of an "aha moment" - but, it often takes more than just a moment for that word to begin to manifest itself in our lives. It requires work. <BR/><BR/>For example, when my hubby and I were separated...God really began to reveal some things to me - clear as day. My first thought was now that my "issues" had been revealed to me - that was the end of it. Identify it, end it. Ha! Boy, was I wrong. That quick (and revealing word from God) - did not come with a quick fix. It required working through my "stuff"....which is the greatest thing I have ever done!<BR/><BR/>Blessings to you, Sue! I pray you have a great week!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-91666441446931181092008-10-14T11:26:00.000-04:002008-10-14T11:26:00.000-04:00AMEN...!!! I SO want some family members to see t...AMEN...!!! I SO want some family members to see this! I'll pray for them now. Thank you so much for this post today. And yes...that book is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G! My husband and I did the study with the DVD'S and they were great!<BR/>Much love,<BR/>Angie xoxoAngela Baylishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16846369575832747037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636139298576673779.post-90064106971680365122008-10-14T06:54:00.000-04:002008-10-14T06:54:00.000-04:00I just ran across a great blog by Love and Respect...I just ran across a great blog by Love and Respect also:<BR/>http://emersonandsarah.blogspot.com/Praise and Coffeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18273673325959351521noreply@blogger.com